Friday, December 23, 2016

Healthy Reasons To Avoid Getting Hurt Or Disappointed With Spouse/ People


 
The story you tell yourself is a lie:
It’s a lie that they don’t care about you until you know for absolute certain. It’s a lie that they even should care about you until they do. Examine the sad sob-story you tell yourself before you believe it.
The expectations you have are false:
You have no right to impose expectations on others. You are here to live your life not tell others how to live theirs. So stop already. Make best friends with reality and see it for what it is is to get closer to joy. If people care, and show it, great. If they care and don’t show it, not that you’ll know for certain but great. And if they don’t care and don’t show it, also great. You go on being happy, honey!

Your happiness or misery depends on you:
I admit, it’s a delight to blame the whole bloody world for our sadness. Not a healthy good-for-you kinda delight but a delight nonetheless. And the truth is, baby, the way to both happiness and misery is all on you. Ugly truth but a liberating one. Embrace it.

Your power resides in you, not them:
Stop giving your power away for the love of whatever you love. Keep it safe inside yourself. You give your power away to others by having crazy expectations. And all expectations are crazy. No wonder you are bereft of all joy. Hold on to your power.

You need your energy for important stuff:
Do you not realize how much this drains your energy? Stop being a hero about it. One good cry and I’m wiped for the afternoon! One crazy story in my mind and my yoga practice is ruined. Imagine what you can do with the energy that you don’t waste on being hurt and disappointed. Use it for good. Use it on your terms, not as a reaction to a false story.

You owe it to yourself to live in joy:
You can certainly live however you like, you have that right. But you owe it to you to live in joy. You owe it to the beautiful and wonderful person that you are to live in complete joy and harmony, and you have the means to create that very life so if you want it, you can have it. It’s a choice!

You will have wasted the time anyway:
When you begin to see clearly, you will either patch up with these people who ‘disappoint’ and ‘hurt’ you or you will move on from them and forget them altogether. Either way, this hurt, this disappointment is a waste of time. Stop wallowing in self-pity and use the minutes for better things.

 You will grow old faster:
Misery and sadness shrink the heart, shut down the brain pathways, and slowly detach you from the world of reality and present time. You will move deeper and further into your story, your sadness, your self-pity in your mind and you will lose reasons to live fully and to be happy. And when you lose your reasons to live, what is left?

 You are loved, no matter what:

It all comes down to love. We yearn to be loved. We yearn to matter in this world. We yearn to be somebody to someone. So go be somebody to someone then! Stop drowning in the misery of “She doesn’t love me!” “He doesn’t care about me!” Find love on your own terms by giving love first.

Friday, December 9, 2016

If your spouse Is Circumcised Or Not Doesn't Really Impact Your Sexual Actions, New Study Shows, Plus What You Should Know About when you man is not CUT


Circumcised or no Circumcised? What’s your liking? A new study shows that in spite of what people say they firstly prefer, whether a man is circumcised or not doesn't really matter because Circumcised has no impact on one's sex life. Hmmm are yo
u sure??? Let’s keep reading

In a recent study published in the Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality, researchers at Queen's University took 196 people, both men and women in sexual relationships with men, and surveyed them on their partner's circumcision status and their sex lives. Initially, women reported to having a slight preference for circumcised partners because they were seen as being more attractive and “in line with social norms.” On the other hand, men strongly preferred partners with intact penises and felt more positively towards them. However, as researchers found, none of that really mattered.

“Although people notice [whether a man is circumcised or not], at the end of the day, it doesn't seem to have a really big impact on their sexual lives,” Jennifer Bossio, PhD candidate at Queen's University and lead author of the study said.

The survey found that women who had partners with uncircumcised partners reported to having higher levels of sexual satisfaction than those with circumcised partners, however, as Bossio noted, the statistical significance between the two figures was unclear. Then again, at the end of the day, none of that matters.

“Even if a woman … really prefers a circumcised penis and she gets into a relationship with a man who's not circumcised, at the end of the day, I don't think he has much to worry about,” Bossio said. “Women and men, they tend to be really, really happy with their partner's circumcision status, regardless of what that is.”

Very true. This isn't the first time the issue of male circumcision and sex have been brought into light. In 2013, a study published in the British Journal of Urology International in 2013 reported that circumcised men felt less sexual pleasure than their fellow uncircumcised men. But the study drew criticism from experts such as Douglas Diekema, a pediatrics professor at the University of Washington who took part in the American Academy of Pediatrics 2012 task force on circumcision. Douglas and many other experts claimed the study used a biased sample population, failed to measure sensitivity changes before and after circumcision, and only found a small difference between the groups rendering the results to be “clinically meaningless.”

For the guys out there who endlessly worry about their penis, you can just stop and calm down. When it comes down to it, things like foreskin or size don't really matter. That is the honest truth. According to science, anyway.


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Tuesday, December 6, 2016

Women genital tract diseases: Common STDs in Women


Most women experience minor vaginal problems from time to time. These problems can be related to menstrual cycles, sex, infection, birth control methods, aging, medicines, or changes after pregnancy.
A change in your normal vaginal discharge may be the first sign of a vaginal problem. Changes in urination, such as having to urinate more frequently or having a burning feeling when you urinate, also may be a symptom of a vaginal problem.

Conditions that may cause a change in your normal vaginal discharge include:
Infections of the vagina, such as a yeast infection, bacterial vaginosis, trichomoniasis, human papillomavirus (HPV), or herpes.

Infection of the cervix (cervicitis).
An object in the vagina, such as a forgotten tampon.
Sexually transmitted infections (STIs), such as chlamydia or gonorrhea.
Various sex practices, such as oral-to-vaginal and anal-to-vaginal contact.
Vaginal medicines or douching.

Pelvic Pain

The exact cause of pelvic pain may be hard to find. The severity of your pain and other symptoms you have may help determine what is causing the pain. For example: A condition, such as functional ovarian cysts, may cause pelvic pain and vaginal bleeding when you are not having your period.
Vaginal infections

If you think you may have symptoms of an STI:
Do not have sexual contact or activity while waiting for your appointment. This will prevent the spread of the infection.
Women should not douche. Douching changes the normal balance of bacteria in the vagina. Douching may flush an infection up into your uterus or fallopian tubes and cause pelvic inflammatory disease (PID).

The presence or excess growth of yeast cells, bacteria, or viruses can cause a vaginal infection. A vaginal infection may occur when there is a change in the normal balance of organisms in your vagina.

The three most common types of vaginal infections are:

    Candida vulvovaginitis (yeast infections).
    Bacterial infections (bacterial vaginosis).
    Parasitic infections (trichomoniasis).

Common symptoms of vaginal infection include:
    Increase or change in the vaginal discharge, including gray, green, or yellow discharge.
    Vaginal redness, swelling, itching, or pain.
    Vaginal odour.
    Burning with urination.
    Pain or bleeding with sex.

If you are pregnant and have vaginal symptoms, talk with your doctor about your symptoms before considering any home treatment measures. Some home treatment measures may not be appropriate, depending on the cause of your vaginal infection. Conditions such as bacterial vaginosis can affect your pregnancy, so it is important to talk with your doctor and be treated appropriately.
Vaginal infections may increase the risk for pelvic infections, such as pelvic inflammatory disease (PID).

Vaginal or vulvar problems

Other vaginal or vulvar problems may occur from the use of birth control methods, the use of medicines, or aging, or as a result of changes after pregnancy. These problems include:

 Vaginal prolapse, which may cause urination and bowel changes.
 Retained tampon, birth control device, or foreign object. See how to remove an object from the   vagina.

Vulvar or vaginal injury, such as landing on a metal bar such as on a bike or playground equipment or from an object in the vagina.
Vulvar pain (vulvodynia).
Pudendal neuralgia, from pressure on the pudendal nerve in the genital area.
Noninfectious vaginitis. Examples of this include:
 An allergic reaction or irritation from chemicals, such as those found in vaginal sprays, douches, or spermicides.
Hormone changes related to menopause, such as atrophic vaginitis.

Use of antibiotics and other medicines, which may change the balance of organisms in your vagina.

A young girl with unusual vaginal symptoms should be evaluated by her doctor to determine the cause. Vaginitis in a young girl may be caused by:

A ball of toilet paper in her vagina.
Pinworms that have spread from the anus to the vagina.
The spread of bacteria from an upper respiratory infection of the ears (otitis media) or throat (tonsillitis) to the vagina by her hands.

A young girl with vaginal symptoms must also be evaluated for possible sexual abuse.
Rashes, sores, blisters, or lumps in the vaginal or vulvar area.

Many conditions can cause a rash, sore, blister, or lump in your vaginal area (vulva). One of the most common causes of a rash is genital skin irritation that may occur when soap is not rinsed off the skin or when tight-fitting or wet clothes rub against the skin. A sore, blister, or lump in your vaginal area may require a visit to your doctor.


Treatment of a vaginal problem depends on the cause of the problem, the severity of your symptoms, and your overall health condition.

Sunday, December 4, 2016

Here Is What It Really Means When Your Man Looks At Another Woman





What “The Look” Means
  • He finds her physically attractive.
  • When he saw her, a chemical reaction happened in his brain. Neurotransmitters like dopamine and serotonin were released, giving him an involuntary surge of pleasure.
  • Part of him wants her, or wonders what it would be like to be with her, in a completely harmless and innocent way.
Just like you might be sexually attracted to Denzel Washington or Channing Tatum, and wonder what that might be like… but you wouldn’t act on it.
In an alternate universe where he was single and unattached, he might be interested in her as a sexual partner.
What It Doesn’t Mean
  • He finds her more beautiful than you.
  • He isn’t attracted to you.
  • He isn’t happy with you, and your relationship.
  • You don’t satisfy him.
  • You aren’t _______ (attractive, skinny, sexy, loving, affectionate, etc.) enough for him.
  • You should be angry at him, or jealous of her, or insecure about yourself or your body.
  • He is unfaithful, or that he is going to cheat on you.
  • Your relationship is doomed.
Simply put, him looking has nothing to do with you at all. The world is full of beautiful sights – flowers and sunsets, great works of art – none more beautiful than the female body. It doesn’t take anything away from you when your man admires a painting or sculpture. It doesn’t diminish his love for you when he looks at another woman.
The look is really nothing more than that: acknowledging and appreciating beauty when we see it.
Why Men Look At Other Women
For men, sexual attraction and emotional connection do not necessarily go hand in hand. We can be attracted to women on a strictly physical level. We can be turned on by women with whom we feel no emotional connection or compatibility. We can be head-over-heels in love, completely devoted to one woman, and still be attracted to other women. In fact, science suggests that we can’t help it.
A research study published in the 2013 Archives of Sexual Behavior revealed big differences in the way men and women are drawn to potential partners. Women tend to be more attracted to men based on familiarity; preferring men who closely resemble their current partner, and rating men more attractive the more often they see them. Men, however, are attracted to novelty. We are drawn toward the new and different, attracted to many different women, with many different features and body types.
This is usually interpreted as being the result of evolution. Generally speaking, women evolved to be wives and mothers, nurturers and caretakers, while we men are programmed to ensure the survival of our genes by “sowing our seeds” as far and wide as possible. You could say that our eyes are hardwired to wander.
It’s not a personal choice, it’s a biological instinct. And it’s usually acted on before the slower, conscious decision-making process kicks in.
The natural sexual urges and impulses of men are also aggravated by media and advertising that is over-sexualized. Everywhere we look, we are exposed to sexual images and innuendo designed to sell us everything from cars and cologne to beer and cheeseburgers. These usually feature heavily made-up, airbrushed and photoshopped models that promote an impossible ideal of “beauty.” (Of course this also encourages women to have all kinds of body-image issues and insecurities, but that’s another article…)
When It’s A Problem
While it is normal for men to notice other women, to look and admire, and even fantasize a bit, there is a line of respect that a mature and committed man will not cross. Looking is one thing, staring is another; and it can be hurtful, embarrassing and offensive. As I said before, I cannot help my momentary reaction when I see an attractive woman. But once the moment passes, I quickly turn my attention back to the love of my life, the woman to whom I am faithfully devoted.
Blatant staring, inappropriate comments, touching, flirting and (obviously) cheating are all red flags. This kind of behavior indicates that a man is either not mature enough to control himself, or he doesn’t respect you (or women in general) or care enough about you to reign in his impulses. Either way, it doesn’t bode well for the future of your union…
Why Didn’t I Notice Before?
Often a man’s roaming eye doesn’t become an issue until after a couple has been together for a year or more, and the magical “honeymoon phase” has come to an end.
It is tempting to assume that because the passion has started to fade, your partner is no longer into you, and he is looking around to explore other options. But that’s not necessarily true. There are at least two reasons why this situation hasn’t reared it’s head before now, neither of which means that your partner has lost interest in you.
For one thing, during the early stages of a new romance, we are literally “high on love.” Our brains emit a powerful and intoxicating chemical cocktail whenever we see, or even think about, our partner. For many men, this natural buzz is often enough to drive all thought of other women from our minds, reducing or eliminating our wandering eyes.
Second, during this intense, new love phase both partners tend to idealize each other, completely overlooking annoying habits and traits. Even if your partner did check out another woman in front of you, you might be so infatuated with him that you ignore it, or unconsciously block it out.
But after a year or two, or three at the most, the honeymoon comes to an end. There is a gradual change in the way our brains respond to our partner, and it changes how we feel and act when we are together. For him, his old hunter-gatherer instincts kick in as strong as ever, and he finds that his eyes are once again drawn to every attractive woman who crosses his path. And she can no longer remain blissfully ignorant. She notices his roving eye, and if she has ever been cheated on before, it’s bound to open up those old wounds, and bring any insecurities front and center.
This was certainly the case for me and my relationship. For the first year or two, I was so smitten with my beloved that I scarcely noticed other women. It was the first time I had experienced this, and it was a beautiful thing. But when that initial, fiery passion began to cool, my eyes started roaming again. Not because I lost interest in her, but because my brain chemistry was changing. We were entering a new phase of our relationship, and the dynamic was changing for both of us.
Up to this point, a love affair is easy and effortless, as both partners are swept up and carried off by the raging storm of their mutual attraction. But in order for a relationship to survive past this point, it takes real honesty, commitment and clear communication on both sides.
How To Deal With Your Guy’s Roving Eye
Don’t Assume.
When you do notice your man looking at another woman, don’t read too much into it. Remember what it means, and most importantly what it doesn’t. A glance does not equal a betrayal. Remember that he loves you, he cares about you, he is committed to you, and he is still attracted to you. Of all the women in his life, he chooses to be with you.
Set Realistic Expectations.
When we hold our partner to impossible standards, it leads to a never-ending cycle of disappointment, hurt feelings, anger and frustration. No one wins. We have to get real about human nature and sexual desire. There are lots of beautiful women in the world, and you are not the only one that your guy finds attractive. Don’t expect him not to notice or look at other women 100% of the time.
Tell Him How You Feel.
When your partner’s roaming eye does hurt your feelings, or make you feel inadequate, tell him so. Practice Non-Violent Communication. Express your honest feelings without blaming, shaming or accusing him.
Set Healthy Boundaries.
If your partner is committed to making your relationship work, he will be willing to work with you in setting some healthy boundaries. He shouldn’t look too often, too long, or too blatantly. He should make every effort not to make you uncomfortable (or other women, for that matter). And most importantly, he should make it clear to you, in both his words and his actions, that he still wants you, and cares for you; he is still attracted to you, and committed to your relationship.

Thursday, December 1, 2016

Major Reasons some Women Don’t Enjoy Sex


What doctors call Female Sexual Dysfunction (FSD) can fall into five types of problems:

Low libido, or what doctors refer to as Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder (HSDD).Painful sex. This can include pain during sex due to menopausal vulvo-vaginal atrophy resulting from a lack of hormones as well as a burning pain syndrome of the genitals.

Difficulty being aroused. Sexual Arousal Disorder can originate in the genital area (comparable to erectile dysfunction in men) or an issue at the brain level (which is more common in women).
Aversion to sex. Often, this is related to a history of sexual abuse.

Inability to achieve orgasm. Up to 10-20 percent of women never achieved orgasm and many others have difficulty. But there are treatments available for this.It’s important to note that if a woman isn’t bothered by low libido or if she likes intimacy with her partner but simply doesn’t seek it, this isn’t considered a problem. It is normal for women to lose some of their sexual drive as they get older, and much depends on whether or not she considers this an issue.

Treatments for sexual dysfunction

There are a variety of treatments for sexual dysfunction, depending on the root cause of the problem. There are a variety of options, including an oral medication and hormones as well as others that are simply creams or devices that help women feel aroused.

Possible treatments include:

Off-label testosterone – This can effectively treat low libido but requires the help of a hormone expert. Too much testosterone can lead to acne, hair loss, facial hair growth, aggressiveness and permanent voice changes.

Zestra – Currently, over-the-counter Zestra (a botanical oil to apply to the genitals) is available to enhance a woman’s ability to climax.

EROS device – The FDA-approved agent, the EROS device, is available by prescription to help women with climax.

INTONE ™ and Intensity™ – There is a new FDA approved electrical stimulating device called INTONE ™ devised to help treat urinary leakage in women that may also help with orgasmic capacity. In fact, a smaller device, called Intensity™ works on its own to improve and stimulate female orgasms and does not require physician prescription.

Vaginal estrogen – Available as a cream, a tablet or a vaginal ring, and considered the best treatment for genital arousal problems and pain from vulvovaginal atrophy that occurs in many postmenopausal women.

Off-Label use of Vaginal DHEA 1 percent suppository – An adrenal precursor that women with vaginal atrophy/thinning/decreased sensation can use as an alternative to vaginal estrogen.
Osphena – The first, non-estrogen oral therapy for moderate to severe painful sexual activity due to vulvovaginal atrophy.


Flibanserin (Addyi®) – This drug was recently approved by the FDA to restore female sexual desire in women before menopause. It must be taken orally every day, and it may have side effects, such as severe low blood pressure and fainting.

Saturday, November 26, 2016

Learn how to GET RID of Pimples Instantly





Use Orange Peel and Juice to Get Rid of Pimples Overnight

As indicated by Cosmetic Dermatologist Principles and Practice that the acidity and vitamin C substance in oranges makes it a flawless cure for pimples and acne.

First wash your hands before touching your skin, since dirty hands can acquaint bacteria with the skin.    Then wash your face with warm water as this helps to enlarge the pores.
Gently rub the orange peel on the affected area.  You need to use the separate orange peels for every pimple. Generally, there is a high risk of bacterial infection from one area to other if you use the same peel.    Extract some orange juice also after removing the peel. Now dip a cotton ball or swab in orange juice and apply it on the pimples.    Change the cotton ball also while applying the juice on pimples to prevent bacteria from spreading.    leave it for 15 to 30 minutes. Now wash your face with cold water, this will shrink the pores and prevent from further obstructing of pores.

Note: Wash immediately if you feel burning sensation or itching.

Use Green Tea to Get Rid of Pimples
There are many studies, which proves that the green tea has shown magical effects on acne and pimples when used externally. There is a theory that it also helps when you consume it. Green tea contains an antioxidant called epigallocatechin-3-gallate or EGCG.
ECGC  helps in reducing the sebum production, bactial growth and inflammation in acne-prone skin.  So it means that it solves the problems responsible for pimples.

Directions to Use Green Tea:

  Take few green tea leaves. If you not able to get green tea leaves, then use the green tea bags.
  Take a cup and pour boiling water in it. Let it be cool for 5-10 minutes.    In the meanwhile, wash your face and pat dry with the help of towel.    Use a cotton ball to apply the cool gren tea water on your face or where you see the breakouts.    Leave it for 10-15 minutes and then wash your face with the normal water.


Use toothpaste to Get Rid of Pimples Overnight 

Toothpaste is an extraordinary treatment to remove pimples overnight. Also, it is available in every house and you do not need to go out to the supermarket or nearby store. Toothpaste is best utilized and gives a better result after washing the area and then apply it on the pimple. It is essential to note that white toothpaste must be utilized instead of any gel based toothpaste to remove pimples. You can also read how to remove pimples with floss and mouthwash.

 Apply some white toothpaste to the pimple or on the influenced area of the skin. You can apply the toothpaste and leave it overnight. Wash it with cool water in the morning to cure pimples.    In the case, that you aren’t going anyplace in day, you can repeat the procedure in the day time. Try to leave the toothpaste in contact with the pimples for no less than thirty minutes to be viable.

Note: Sometimes you can feel itching and feel burning sensation since you had not selected the right toothpaste or your skin is to sensitive. In that case, try to use other remedies.

Use Tea Tree Oil to Get Rid of Pimples

Here is an effective remedy to get rid of pimples fast. Tea tree oil has antibacterial properties, which help in fighting the microscopic organisms and kill bacteria that cause pimples.  It works like a solvent, which penetrates through the extra sebum. It further unblocks the pores and removes the dead cells. Additionally, it helps in reducing the redness and inflammation of pimples.

Before you use the tea tree oil, you need to dilute it. To dilute the tea tree oil, you can add a drop of oil to 9 drops of water.

Directions to Use Tea Tree Oil for Pimples:  Wash your face completely and dry it. Dip a cotton ball in diluted tea tree oil and apply it on the affected area or on the pimple. Wash your face in 15 to 20 minutes.    Alternatively, you can take 1 tablespoon of Aloe-Vera gel and add a couple of drops in it. Now, apply it on the pimples with the help of a cotton ball.  Leave it for 15 to 20 minutes and then wash your face.Note: Tea tree oil should be diluted always before you use.

Baking Soda to Get Rid of Pimples Overnight

Baking Soda, ruler of home remedies and works like a surprise to get rid of pimples too. This is a quick fix, we recommend to everybody since it works well for sensitive skin too, dissimilar to different remedies that cause sketchiness or dryness.    Make a paste by mixing a few drops of water with the baking soda.    After making the paste, wash the area and then apply this paste to pimples.    Leave the paste to get it dry. After drying, wash off with warm water and apply a moisturizer.    Do not leave the paste on for more than 30-40 minutes as it could cause skin dryness.

Get Rid of Pimples with Cinnamon-Honey Mixture

In the event that you are eager to reduce your pimples in night you better strive for this remedy.

    First of all make a paste of mixing equal amount of cinnamon with honey.
    Cleanse your face before applying the paste on the pimples.
    Apply the paste to the pimple or the effected area. Have a peaceful and average sleep.
    See the difference in the wake of washing your face next day in the morning.


Get Rid of Pimples with Garlic

Garlic has anti-bacterial properties that provide the assistance to battle acne and pimples. Nonetheless, never apply the garlic without diluting it first. Garlic is also one of the best home remedy for pimples.

 Take fresh garlic cloves and extract the juice from them.Dilute the garlic juice by adding a few drops of water into it.  Alternatively, you can mash 2-3 garlic cloves in water. Let it soak in water for say 10-15 minutes.    After that add some aloe-vera gel into the garlic water.    Apply it on the affected area to treat pimples.    You can also consume garlic to get rid of pimple breakouts later on.


Honey to Get Rid of Pimples Overnight

You can see a phenomenal results with honey in removing the pimples. It is being a common anti-biotic, it murders the bacteria that cause pimples. Honey also keeps the skin healthy with the help of its hydrating properties.

    To see its magical effect, you need to apply some honey over your pimples.
    Allow it to dry all alone for 60 minutes, you can also leave it for overnight.
    Then rinse it off with normal water in next morning.
    You can notice the magical effect of honey and you pimples will go away.


Friday, November 25, 2016

Sex Positions Everybody ought to try in Their Lifetime That'll Make You Feel the Love





Woman On Top
A man lying down with the woman on top can be a vulnerable position for both partners, which can create emotional intimacy. He has to give up control, while your goods are totally on display. This sex position is ideal for lots of touching and intimate caresses.

Hold Me
In this position the man holds the woman as if she's just jumped into his arms. With your legs wrapped around his waist and your arms around his neck, this loving position is conducive to slow movements, passionate kisses, and romantic swaying. #aww

Enhanced Missionary
The missionary position is already an intimate way to have sex, since your faces are close and almost all of your body is in contact. To enhance the emotional intimacy of the position, have him hold your butt or move his legs to the outside of yours to more fully envelop your body.

And if a couple is so inclined, this position also offers a good approach for anal sex by retaining face-to-face emotional intimacy.

Spooning
Although there's no eye contact in spooning, this sex position creates intense emotional connectedness as the he cradles you with his entire body. It's also a wonderful position for touching, squeezing, rubbing—and even hand-holding, which can be incredibly intimate during sex. This position is considered one of the best sex positions for female orgasm. Woop, woop!

Hands Free
Have him sit on a chair and straddle him with your feet on the floor. This allows for face-to-face contact, and easy access for kisses, whispers... and touching everywhere.

Crossed Legs or Lotus
The lotus sex position offers crazy emotional intimacy. He sits cross-legged, or in the actual yoga-style lotus position, and you get on his lap, arms and legs wrapped around him. You'll be fully entwined and face to face. The need for slower, sensual movements in this position turns up the heat.

Standing Missionary
Turn the missionary position 90 degrees so you're both standing, and you'll find that this full-body-contact sex position is super hot. Muscles tighten to remain standing and, even with a support behind you, you're both more physically dependent on each other.

Slow Going
In this sex position, he's seated, legs extended, leaning back on his arms.You'll sit on top, facing him, lean back, and extend your legs behind him. By necessity, this position requires slow, gentle movements. There is an electric emotional intimacy in not being able to move much.

Higher Love
Lie on your back at the edge of a bed or another surface, and put your legs on your partner's shoulders as he stands in front of you. Both of you share control; he leads the movements, and you can use your legs to push him back a bit and slow him down, or to let him lean all the way in.